Agreed to forgo the winch in favor of using horses for now. Horses do get a bit skittish around fires, but they should be manageable.
Grapples will be in the large wagon, since they're probably going to be used with the horses anyway.
Training in rope use will be added to the regular regimen. There are a couple of people on the crew who have a high amateur level of ability with knots and rope use, although none comparable to you, so you're going to have to show them what they need to know and what they need to teach.
Refresh my memory: how did you expect to find someone to rent the other half of the duplex? (E.g., did you contract an agent to represent you for this, or post notices with a contact place, or something else?)
Things are otherwise quiet. You contact the matchmaker about a month before the wedding date as the weather is starting to cool a bit, and she says now that you are back everything can move forward on schedule. What you need to do, she says, is figure out where you will be taking your bride after the wedding, both in the short term and in the long term. You will also want to wear a good suit.
We are again approaching an area in which the culture of the world has to be created, because it's not a relevant part of the world description as usually played. I'll make a few preliminary comments, and you can give me your thoughts on the subject. That is, what are the customs associated with a wedding?
- My experience with this world suggests that it is generally not religious. Your experience has reflected that. They don't believe in God or gods, particularly. That means they don't have highly "religious" rituals. At the same time, a marriage is a significant event in the lives of those wed, and thus the wedding is going to be marked by custom and ritual which will have meaning.
- Christian brides where white to symbolize purity. When I invented the Odinite wedding for Bob Slade in
For Better or Verse I put the bride in green to represent fertility. It might be that color is irrelevant, and the bride will wear what she likes; or that color signifies class or station in life (I think that is the case in some Oriental cultures), so that different brides wear different colors.
European wedding lore says that the bridegroom and his best man made a guerrilla assault on his bride's home and took her captive, taking her to the church where the cleric conducted the binding wedding ceremony while the groom's men, or groomsmen, barricaded the door against the bride's family. Thus the best man stood beside him as partner in the kidnapping. In Slade's version, his best man was tasked with awakening him on his wedding day and helping him prepare for the battle that lay before him ("it has something to do with someone called Frigga and all the noble virtues of courage, a facing of the one person against whom you are most vulnerable, or some such claptrap."); Slade was married in his armor with his weapons.
I've got a lot of other details in Slade's wedding, but they're really more appropriate to a pagan/Odinite concept, and not to this culture. Here are a few points from that which we can include:
- Feast follows wedding, we all get to eat then.
- Best man captures bride and brings her to the groom--well, I got that from the other tradition, but left the groom out of the capture.
- Soldiers saluted as the groom entered.
- Bride is at the groom's right hand, forever.
- On bride's entry, assembly kneels on one knee and bows head.
- Garlands of grape ivy in the bride's clothing.
- Chain of lustrous white stones encircled bride's head supporting thin green drape that flowed down her back, which shredded and wove into her braids, with small white stones like dew drops in the braids.
- Thin pink sash not wider than a cord across the bride's breast spoke of purity, supporting a blood red patch over her heart symbolizing devotion.
- The bride wore boots of calves' leather speaking of her readiness to stand beside him in the battles ahead.
I'm not going to reproduce the vows here unless you want them. Everyone has his own idea about what the vows ought to say.
There are a few points to make about some of the associated customs of our modern weddings, particularly at the reception.
- Brides and grooms feed each other cake. This is an exercise in trust--the only way it can work is if each focuses on the job of putting cake in the mouth of the other, and not on trying to get his/her mouth on the cake coming.
- The throwing of the flowers suggests that the good fortune of the bride might be given to another girl awaiting marriage.
- The removal of the bride's garter by the groom introduces the beginning of the more intimate relationship.
- It is proper to congratulate a groom for catching a bride, but not a bride for catching a groom; the bride should be given best wishes. The illusion that he persuaded her to marry him must be maintained in this.
That's probably more than I should have posted, but it will certainly get ideas flowing--unless you'd like to take them to another thread and have your colleagues on this board suggest what would work as a Durnmist wedding?
--M. J. Young