"Oh, I don't know. You are the only person I've ever known to use, or even to have, a wand. They're mentioned in the old stories sometimes, but I've never seen one and no one has ever mentioned having seen one or used one that I know. But then, I don't know a lot of the older witches and warlocks, so maybe they use them. But I don't think Gwendylon uses one, and everyone says she's the best witch alive today."
"Well, I guess the first thing to do is to see if you can hear thoughts. Look at me. Now, try to tune your mind to my mind, so that whatever I'm thinking will ring in your mind, too. Can you do that? It's probably not much different from trying to use your wand, really, but you're trying to become attuned to my thoughts."
You try but don't get it.
--M. J. Young